it has been my routine every morning since my son started school here to drop him to school before going work. i usually sit with him on the waiting area while we wait for the bell to ring. while waiting, i usually encouraged him to play with the other kids. i will also tell him that i should just drop him off the gate and he should be independent. today after 2 weeks, when we are nearing the gate of his school, he told me that its time for me to go. he said he can go on his own. i asked him if he was sure, he nodded and kissed me goodbye. i watched him and felt proud and sad at the same time.

my school boy

my husband is not my friend in facebook

a new friend blatantly asked me if my husband has a facebook account.  it is a normal question but i was hesitant to answer it because i know what the next question would be.  but just to clear things out, yes he has a facebook account and we are not friends because i have un-friend him.  well, our marriage is in a rocky road right now.  its not something i hide but its also not something im proud of.  plus i know that talking about it openly will just make it more complicated.  i dont wanna say things and in the end eat them. all i know right now is im not settling for less than i think what i deserve.  i always believed in love and i know that love will always be my friend.